Flexible, Just Do It My Way
It's not easy to make friends. Even if you find someone with similar interests, you still have several barriers to work around. The higher the social awkwardness, the more barriers. And then the other person has barriers like a job, time constraints, family obligations, or medical conditions sapping energy. So even if you find a possible friend, and even if everything is aligned to go smoothly, the two of you might not form a connection. I saw a Witch on Lemon8 looking for a pen pal. Okay, that would be cool. I like getting letters. I decided to check out her account. She seemed more or less like me. I liked a few of her posts. I answered the pen pal post, giving my age and location. She followed me. I followed back. I was not going to jump straight to sending letters because I don't just give out my home address. She didn't give out her address either, so I presumed her to be of like mind. She commented on my Dragon Tarot deck. I said I would make a post about m...